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Rider’s Story – Wisdom on Life After Death

Most of the animals I work with in my animal communication practice teach me something. These little bits of learning add up over time; sometimes a whole new concept is unveiled by one wise animal. Such was the case with Rider, a beautiful canine who enjoyed a very full life. At the end of his time on earth he took the opportunity to teach his human and me his view on life after passing.

Red Rocket Rider

A few weeks before his passing, Rider was clear with his human that he loved his life and would gladly just replace his tired-out body and stay in this life with his human if he could. He was clear that he would be exploring options to be in a physical body again just as soon as feasible – he didn’t want to miss out on any exciting earthly adventures if he had the choice!

In our first connection with Rider shortly after his passing, he expressed joyfulness to his human, and he said he was already watching for opportunities to come back to earth in a new body. During our consultation with Rider, his human asked if he had seen his canine companion, Wally, or had any contact with him yet? Rider responded “yes, I am aware of Wally, we are in contact, we can be each other.” We moved on to other topics and closed our session with him.

In the next connection with Rider, his human, an open and loving person who has her own gifts with animals and people, remembered Rider’s response and asked him to expand, please. Rider took a breath, in a manner of speaking, and began his lesson. From Rider’s perspective:

Rider – “all spirit beings are one another.” He offered an image of minuscule particles intermingling and the individual particles were moving around, but also through and into, other particles.

Huh?

Rider – “All of us spirits are each other. We don’t “become” one another on demand; we *are* one another all the time. We don’t have to ask questions of one another or respond, we don’t have to see each other or have a conversation. As spirits, we are all spirits with all the experiences, knowledge, and wisdom from all.”

Rider and his special human companion

So you are part of one big spirit community?

Rider – “I am the spirit community; the spirit community is me. I can be individual when I choose to be, like right now talking to you. But when I am with my fellow spirits, I am them and I have experienced their experiences, and their adventures, and I know what they know. We are not individual. We are one; we are one another.”

In the spirit world, do you have a body?

“I can have an image of a body if I need one. I can express myself in the physical world by showing my spirit in a body.”

I had to ask, Kelly to Rider – “Why is this a new concept to me? Why have I not understood this from other animals who are newly in spirit form?”

Rider – “The questions you ask, the questions most humans ask of their animals in spirit are individual in nature. We speak to you as individuals. This time my mom wanted, needed, and was ready to know more.”

I will be forever grateful to Rider’s wise human who identified his initial comment as one worth exploring. Not only have I learned from Rider an additional aspect of life after passing, I am learning to hear beyond what our limited human context might indicate. This lesson is a work in progress….

Rider also talked to his human about reincarnation. That, too, was a new way of considering the process of reincarnation. A good topic for a future blog post!

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Communicating with Animals in Spirit

Many people ask me if animal communication works with animals who have passed on. The short answer is “yes” but of course, there is a longer, more detailed answer as well. As an animal communicator, my experience is that most animals remain available, willing, ready, and even anxious to communicate with their humans. Occasionally this is not the case, but I can think of only about four animals who have passed away with which I have not able to connect at all.

There are a variety of reasons we might want to communicate with our beloved animals in spirit. First and foremost, a communication session offers an opportunity for closure, especially if the animal passed unexpectedly. Even with animals whom we expect to pass, or whom we assist to pass, closure a few weeks after their passing has proven to be extremely valuable for many clients. I have received a number of follow-up emails and voice mails from clients stating that they were suddenly able to let go of guilt, or move through their grief more gracefully after having the opportunity to talk with their deceased companions.

So closure is at the top of the list of reasons for communicating with our pets in spirit. Other reasons on the list are varied and individual.

  • Some clients wish to know if their beloved animal companion intends to return to them – reincarnate – in the future. If so, sometimes the deceased animal can provide signals or clues on how and when to find them.
  • Often a family intends to eventually bring a new pet in to the home, and they request assistance from their animal in spirit to help them find the pet that is waiting for them.
  • Animals who have passed can provide wonderfully profound wisdom and guidance for their humans as they continue on in their lives.
  • Clients sometimes request assistance from their beloved and trusted animal in spirit to help those who are readying themselves to pass. This was extremely comforting to me, personally, knowing that my deceased dog, Pugsley, was available at my request to assist my beloved Valentino as he passed from this life to his new life.

Communicating with our animals who have passed away is not something that is right for everyone. Many do find great comfort and relief, however, in having an opportunity to check in with their beloved companion once, or regularly after their passing.

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Animals Remain With Us In Spirit

Frequently I work with people in my animal communication practice whose animals have transitioned to the spirit world. It is an emotional topic and I am honored to help them connect to their beloved pets after they have passed. My hope is for the human client to gain peace, closure, and possibly even some insights by connecting to their companions who are no longer with them in a physical form.

A client recently sent me this “Raising Duncan” strip by Chris Browne. It sums up so perfectly what I often understand from the animals.

Many times the first communication to come from the animal to their human is “I’m here.” What a comfort it is to know that animals can, and often do, remain with us in their new spirit form.

My blessings to all of you who love your animals, as they love you, no matter their current form.

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Terminal Care and Assistance for Our Pets

I attended a workshop last fall which addressed the topic of the animals’ perspective on dying and when/if assistance is appropriate. The guest presenter of the workshop, Paloma Bärtschi-Herrera, has published an e-book on this subject. I found the e-book to be insightful and helpful in answering some questions about the dying process based on the wisdom of her own animals in spirit.Final Journey image

Animals and the Final Journey:
Help in Passing Over and Assisting
by Paloma Bärtschi-Herrera

This is an emotional topic, but one which we all must face at some point. If  you have an aging animal and are beginning to have questions about resources to help your animal to pass peacefully, whether assisted or unassisted, you may want to consider browsing through this e-book. I started the e-book before my beloved Valentino passed, and finished the book after. While I was at peace with his transition and our agreements with one another, I still found some “ah ha” items in the e-book which helped validate and gave me a clearer perspective on the dying process and why he chose this particular timing and circumstance for his unassisted passing.

The e-book “Animals and the Final Journey” is available on Paloma’s website.  The price is listed on the site; the e-book is 51 pages in length.

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What is Animal Communication? on Live the Day radio

Kelly with client "Cooper"

Kelly with client "Cooper"

I am pleased to be a guest again on the “Live the Day” program on Blog Talk Radio with host Dr. Rachelle Disbennett-Lee. The program will air live on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Coach-Lee48  on Monday, June 22, 2009 at 3:00 p.m. Mountain Daylight Time. Those listening live can call in to ask questions and participate in the conversation at 646-929-2440. The program will be taped and available for listening after June 22nd at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Coach-Lee48.

Kelly and Rachelle will explore what animal communication is, what benefits can be obtained through an animal communicator, and perhaps some real-life examples and stories of how animal communication works.

For example, are you curious if animal communication works the same for all species? Or perhaps you are interested in how animal communication can help with behavioral issues. Maybe you have had a pet pass away and you would like to know if it is possible to still communicate with him? All these questions and more will be answered on the Live the Day Radio program on June 22nd. I invite you to call in with your questions about how animal communication works!

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Resources to Assist when our Pet Passes On

This is a difficult and emotional topic, but one that I work with regularly in my animal communication practice. At some point our beloved pet will age, and eventually will pass away. I appreciate when animal guardians seek out communication or counseling services when the time draws near. It can be extremely helpful for the animal and the guardian to have final words and an opportunity for closure.

loosey1Often the client utilizes animal communication to understand the animals preference – will they be able to pass on their own, or are they asking for assistance? Sometimes I find in my communications that the animal is ready to pass, but is concerned that their human family has not yet reconciled the inevitable. They are seeking permission from their human to finish their transition into the spirit world, as described in this 2-minute audio clip.

Even with the comfort we might receive by understanding our beloved companion’s wishes, there will be more questions and decisions for the humans to make. If the animal indicates that assistance in passing will be necessary or preferred, then what? The humans of the family are left to make the decisions and arrangements. Living in the Denver metro area, I am fortunate to know of  Dr. Ann Brandenburg-Schroeder, a DVM who has devoted her veterinary practice exclusively to in-home euthanasia, as detailed in a recent article in USA Today. I have referred many clients and friends to Dr. Ann, and the words used to describe their experience (“The Day Miki’s Spirit Left her Body”) often include “loving; compassionate; comforting; amazingly good experience” – words which may seem out of context given the subject matter, but are heartfelt and appropriate.

Saying goodbye to our animal companion is heart-wrenching. I have recently learned of a website, www.amomentthatliveson.com, created by Adria A. Ellerbrock, MBA, which consolidates a number of helpful resources for death planning and working through our grief.

It is hard to imagine our lives without our beloved animal companions. Perhaps these resources will make a difficult time a little more bearable.

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